Saturday, 16 September 2023

Fr Rob, why are you a Christian?

 


Dear Friends,

The last few months have been busy in the Benefice. Community events and special services have taken place in St Mary the Virgin Edwardstone, St Bartholomew’s Groton, St Lawrence’s Little Waldingfield and All Saint’s Newton Green. We undertook a walking pilgrimage of 14 miles around our five churches. Then a few weeks ago, we had the most amazing day as St Mary’s Boxford flung its doors open wide and welcomed our Bishop to lead our Patronal Festival (the day which commemorates our Patron Saint, St Mary), new people were Baptised and Confirmed as Christians in the Anglican Tradition and we held the Annual Church Fete. Hundreds of people wandered through and we hope were able to get a tiny glimpse of the Church’s hospitality sitting at the centre of our communities and our lives.

People often ask me, “why are you an Anglican Christian?” (or words to that effect). There are lots of very good answers that I could give to this question: because Christianity makes sense and adds that missing bit of philosophical truth to modern scientific endeavour; it offers stability and balance in an otherwise unsettled world; it provides a stable pillar of morality to individual and national life, the Anglican Church is a sanctifying presence at the heart of the nation. All these are valid and true. Nevertheless, I think a recent interview on Radio 4 offers something equally profound.

‘What would you do if you weren’t afraid?’ is the title of a new book by Michal Oshman, discussed on Radio 4’s Women’s Hour. Now, Michal is no stranger to success having held senior international roles at both Facebook and TikTok. Yet in her book she reveals how she has spent most of her life hiding anxiety and fear bred into her by surrounding culture. Therapy did not help, if anything it made matters worse, causing her to keep revisiting childhood experiences over and over again. She wanted to move forward, not backwards. So at 38 she began exploring what she calls the multiple ‘isms’, Buddhism, Taoism, Hinduism… Her family were Jewish, yet early on she felt no curiosity towards Judaism because society had impressed upon her that to explore that would be regressive. In our society we are led to believe that everything must be shiny and new; different from what our forebears held dear. Nevertheless, it was only after she began re-familiarising herself with the wisdom at her roots did she begin to feel a sense of wholeness, stability and belonging, and with it a calmness and purpose not based upon success or worldly influence.

It may seem a strange thing to say, but I think I am a Anglican Christian partly for similar reasons. It embeds me into the Judeo-Christian tradition of our ancestors and draws me deeper into a timeless wisdom and truth. A wisdom and divine connection that has guided and sustained the lives of countless Christians before me. Its rhythms have brought structure and purpose to otherwise directionless lives and continue to do so. Through its balancing of Tradition, Scripture and Reason, the Anglican faith connects me in the present to the past and the future. It forces me to take seriously my place in a mysterious and complex ecosystem of existence. It reminds me that I cannot neglect spiritual morality nor the importance of community for too long without there being consequences for me and others. Too often, the things we pursue in modern life do not bring us satisfaction, connection or grounding. Christianity teaches me that if we nurture our whole selves, body and soul, then we will become something quite beautiful. Christianity offers me that hope and purpose, even if through my own failings it often seems just beyond my grasp.

When we offer bread and wine on the altars of our churches each Sunday, we do so as a communal act on behalf of the whole parish and benefice (not just those attending). The joys and pains of our community are offered up in prayer, we reflect on God in the life of Jesus, we are fed by his body and blood, and we go out to share that life with others.

I am an Anglican Christian, because the Church is a blessing to us and our communities and I recognise that in order for it to continue we have to commit our time and attention to it. If any of this resonates with you, why not pop in, re-familiarise yourself with the faith of our ancestors and start your journey towards belonging and purpose today?  

With every blessing,

 

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